The older I’m getting, the more I’m failing to understand how emotions work.

That ex who is a father of a child, still confesses to you being his first love.

That friend with whom you were so close knitted with, now barely a like on the Gram story.

That long distance with whom each second was bliss, now is a one word text reply.

That cousin with whom you had your first night out, busy with kids and a family of her own.

Selfish? Failed expectations? Remorse?

To make things easier let’s blame it on the generation for being too cynical. But in reality have I also changed? Gullible. Call me whatever. I like the way things were. Too bad I can’t do anything about it. Everyone is self-loving these days you see. Nobody has the time. You’re lucky they keep in touch.

Self-reminder – don’t expect. The heart and brain don’t speak the same. Walk your own road, burning desires in flame.



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    1. Thank you so very much. It was lovely to see your comment and inspires me to write more when it’s so genuine. Lots of love and absolutely adore your page as well! Hope you’re doing well. πŸ’œπŸŒΈ

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  1. Is it weird that I still expect? Somehow, I wanna expect too. Even if it hurts me in the end. Because I feel like not expecting would mean I may not ever experience the joy of having an expectation turn into reality. Don’t know just a random thought.

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    1. I totally second you! Sans expectations, are we even human? It’s okay to expect but also keep an open mind if that is not met. After which moving on should also be something we should learn with time.
      Getting hurt is just affecting you at the end of the day and nobody else. So love yourself just a tad bit more than you think others do! πŸ’œπŸ’œ
      Thanks for your comment. And have a lovely day… 🌸🌸


  2. The relationships comprise everything which you have mentioned. Relationships are always complicated and we have to manage the most complex situations with that. The emotions which are playing a vital role among people but irony is the emotions which keep changing in our life.

    Great post.πŸ‘Œ

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  3. The lesser you expect, the better. Makes life and relationships last. But certain values, should be non negotiable. The ex has no business. I hope that loving and life lasting relationships come your way soon

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    1. Ahh! You said it so well in a nutshell.
      Thank you for being so kind. Hoping for (lost the count) really long.
      Maybe now it just has to be unexpected. 🌸😊

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    1. It’s kind of reassuring to know I’m not the only one I guess. Somedays I just get sick of trying to believe how everyone else changes and not me. Guess it is what it is.

      Expectations only make us human! πŸ™‚

      Much love πŸ’œπŸŒΈ

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    2. I second your words. Have expectations from self & vibe with those who match your energy. Things & people both are temporary somehow, that’s my experience.πŸ€—πŸ€—

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